What do you mean, "one or the other"?
What do you mean, "one or the other"?
thank you, i did mean the father or the court
Actually I changed my sons last name from his fathers to mine when he was really young. You have to file papers in court (call the local gov't center) and then send a certified letter to the father, if you don't get a response you have to post it in the paper for a period of time. If he doesn't show to court it will usually be granted, at least mine was.