I have personally witnessed 2 people arrested (in court) for violating their own order by initating contact (and these WERE NOT even mutual orders, if you know what thoes are)

I have yet to find a code number for this.

Here is some info that you may find helpful:

Can I violate my own restraining order? If I initiate contact with my abuser will my restraining order be void?
No, you have gone to court and requested that your abuser's actions be restrained, not your own actions. You have requested various orders through the restraining order, including but not limited to, not contacting you, staying 100 yards away from you and moving out of the house. Unless you have been served with restraining order papers that list you as the defendant, there is not a restraining order issued against you and your actions are not restrained. It is very important to seek legal advice before initiating contact with your abuser (except for exchanging your minor children for purposes of court ordered visitation). There is a reason why you needed to get a restraining order, because your physical safety is in jeopardy when you are near this person. Accordingly, you do not want to initiate any contact and place yourself in a position where more abuse may happen. Also, you do not want your abuser to tell the judge in court that you have initiated contact with them. This will send a mixed message to the judge in that you want your abuser to stay away from you but you still want to contact your abuser. The judge may question how dangerous this person is if you are willing to initiate contact with them