I am speaking on behalf of a friend, I was wondering if anyone could give me any helping facts, possible outcomes, and any advice one should do before and during court. Here are the facts that were presented to me. These are spoken from the defendant
it happened on the 15th of september
i dont know the kid very well but he picked me up to go to a party we were both invited to we got there, everyones drinkin. He starts grabbin me by the waist and so I tell him to stop touching me. He then begins to start pickin me up and throwin me in the pool. touchin my butt for probably an hour and a half, im telling him to leave me alone and he just keeps gropin me, picking me up by the waist, tossing me around etc. everyone else thats there is telling him to leave me alone too but he doesnt listen so I punch him in the face then he picks me up, and i kick him in the crotch. I get up off the ground and start walking toward the table everyones sitting at to get away from him and he starts to follow me
when he gets prolly 10 feet in front of me i yell for him to leave me alone and he gets prolly another 2 feet closer b4 i throw the liqour bottle in his direction
obviously, it breaks on his face. even though that wasnt my intentions...someone goes and grabs him a towel and i run around trying to find a ride to leave. cuz he was my ride so then finally my friend david takes me n my friend trey back to his place. THEN the next morning chris sends me a picture of his face. subject line- "fun pics!" i got home the next day prolly around 2 and he sends me a msg on aim to tell me that he isnt mad at me and that he still wants to be friends
and i dont respond to him. obviously. he keeps writing me so i tell him i dont wana talk anymore
then he starts going off about how i had to have known that he was just screwing around. I block him. then he sends me a msg on myspace saying that hes still not mad but his mom wants him to press charges against me. but he doesnt want to
they arrested me they didnt even show me a warrant
So the ending details is that, she is being charged with Malacious Wounding and her lawyer is saying she is going away for 5 years. From this perspective, it doesnt look like the guy is not getting charged with anything. They both were drinking, she was underage, he wasnt. He provided alcohol to her, the underaged drinker. This is Stafford County, Virginia. Her court date is mid January
Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.

