My husband left 4 weeks ago tomorrow...he just announced that he had leased a place and was moving out that weekend. He wouldn't tell me where he went to live and said to put return to sender address unknown on all of his mail. We have only been married since 8/31/06...no children. He also has had an ad out on Yahoo personals since 7/29/07. I thought he would serve me with divorce immediately but he has not...he acts as if I don't exist as there has been no contact since his announcement in October. How do I proceed from here?