I am going through a nasty divorce. I have primary residence of my 3 little boys. My ex has his weekends, but he has a record of DV against me, I left him because I found heroin in our home. He has been using our children as tools to hurt me, which is only hurting them. He is a smooth talker and a munipulater, not to mention his saftey net " family knows the small town PD" *****EX didnt return our babies to me on scheduled time, police found him and them at a lake at 11pm at night he was high on speed, my stepdad a k9 officer for another town was there, told them he was HIGH it was obvious and they let him drive away no questions asked. I got my kids back but when I asked for the video, it was mysteriously "missing". We have court Wed. and I wish there was just a way to expose him. He even knows his ways to adultrate his drug test.