According to our divorce, he gets every other weekend and the Sunday of my weekend granted i have no other plans. This is how it is written in the divorce. He works out of town and keeping that in mind when he does come into town i grant him his access for weekends and give him 3 days during the week as well. I told him from the start i want him to have a good relationship with both of his children, but he has recently become very irate, he is picking fights, making the children feel bad about themselves, and bullying me around. If i make plans with the children on My Sunday i have to tell him where i am going to make sure he approves. His work schedule is unusual and i have to work my life schedule around his work. Whenever i bring up an issue with the children, he starts to scream at me and tells me i am accusing him of being a bad father. He comes to me with nothing when it concerns the children, he rather his new wife deal with the children when he can't then ask me. (example would be school functions) There is no communication between us. His demands are becoming unreasonable and he makes me feel guilty if i do have plans with the children and he is in town. I have custodial custody of the children with joint legal. He is now demanding 15 days out of the month, with blocks of time to be with him when he is in town. The straw that broke the camels back today... the children are with him and my son has a tournment to attend today...first he is late getting there, then i found out that my 9 year old son was up after midnight and got up at 7am. My son was very tired and do not do well in the tournment. My poor son was very upset because he usually places in the top 3. My daughter was hungry, her hair was not brushed, and she had no socks on. When i advised my Ex that if he is going to have a party, i would be more than happy to take the children home to get them rested for the next day, he exploded. I love my children and want only the best for them, but their father is wearing me down. Is there anything i can do, or can he continue to demand extra visitation?

