I live in upstate NY. I am about 24 weeks pregnant and no longer with the father. We were only together for a few months, and he left soon after I got pregnant. I have 2 other children whom I have full custody of. The father of this child always parties, drinking a ton, and smoking pot. He currently does not have his license from a DWI last year. He is on probation. A couple of months ago he was even "kidnapped" by bounty hunters and take to another state because of an outstanding warrant. I am having a girl and at first he was helpful until I informed him she would have my last name. He is now threatening to take me to court and fight for as much as he can. The idea of him being around my daughter makes me sick...I worry for her well being when with him. I nurse my children exclusively(not anymore but when they were younger) and plan on doing so with this child as well, for her health. What I need to know is what is the most the courts could give him? Does he have a good chance at getting anything, especially if he decides to fight for custody? He already has a 5 year old son he has not seen or heard from in about 4 years...he hasn't even tried. I think he is just doing this because one of the reasons we broke up is because, in his words, I gave my children 90% of me and him only 10%. The other reason is he lied to me about his drug use and I found out...I never would have even seen him if I had known before and he knew that. I am a good mother, I am involved in my son's school and I coach his sports teams for the town. I do not work, my son's father pays my bills because we had agreed for me to be a stay at home mom, that it is better for the children. I'm sorry for the lengthy story, I just wanted to provide as much info as possible. Anything you can tell me about anything...and what I could do for my unborn daughter is very much appreciated. Thank you.