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  1. #1
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    Default Worried About Getting Robbed or Burgled

    Had a 5 page letter written didn’t think anyone would want to read it and I really need advise!!!

    My husband’s brother and his wife are prescription drug addicts. They have been kicked out of my father in laws house do to their craziness!! Very long story. They move into his aunts house cause lots of trouble their and now they have their own apt in PA.
    He had a bond on his head of the amount of 50,000. Which my father in law put up for him

    This all escalated in to Harrasing phone calls to each of us that live in the house along with my father in law, his fiancé, myself, my husbands aunt who moved in to take care of her mother .

    Brother in law should and hopefully be in jail shortly for a robbery he did 2 years ago in PA. He is addicted to pain meds he was once a heroin junky and has been in jail on felonies since he was 18 yrs old never mind rehab. His wife not sure if she has any arrest history. They will get their last check from welfare or unemployment next week.
    Everyone in the house is scared they will break in the house and rob us all. Like I said this is just a short version of a real long story…
    WHAT RIGHTS TO WE HAVE TO MAKE SURE WE DON’T GET ROBBED? I am sick over this whole thing. The sooner this loser goes to jail the sooner maybe we will feel safe. His wife is a lunatic. She is suing Wal-Mart on false allegations and now I heard he wants to sue his union (construction job) for his bad back… anyway. They have no money they have a bad addiction to drugs and I am scared … What if anything can I do beside barricade ourselves in the house??
    They also have a 1 year old that we all think DYFUS should take but we don’t want DYFUS to know we called. What legal info can we get on that to…?

    So we need to know if we can get an order of protection if they are near the house we can have them arrested ?
    The phone calls are getting bad Can we get them on harresment ?
    What about a restraining order ?
    Thanks so much for reading this crazy post no one should be living this situation like we are…

  2. #2
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    Default Re: Worried About Getting Robbed or Burgled

    child protection can be called and they are required to keep the caller's identity confidential. you should be more worried about the child than yourself. also, from experience I have learned to notify the police afterr every harassing phone call. keep a journal also. that's my two cents.

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    Default Re: Worried About Getting Robbed or Burgled

    OK here is the story !! its long. By the way there is just so much more they have done to us but will start out with just this...


    My husband, my son and I live in my father in laws house along with my husband’s bed ridden grandmother and his father.
    Back in July 2006 my brother in law came to visit and we all found out that he needed a place to stay. He could have stayed in PA with a friend but they were a bunch of drug addicts and his girlfriend was pregnant and he was a recovering heroin addict amongst other drugs. So my father in law told him they could stay in the house for 6 months until he could get a job and get on his feet. (He recently was in jail in PA then moved to FL). Everything was nice. My husband and I would help out his brother and his girlfriend with food, money, clothes etc What ever they needed we helped them out with. Any activities we did on the weekends we would always invite them. I didn’t know much about this girl the only thing I did know is that in Feb of 2006 she called my father in law told her that my brother in law left her and she wanted money from him. He felt bad so he wired her down money to Florida. That same day my brother in law calls up my father in law and asks’s him for money he told him your girlfriend just called me and I wired her 400. They had broken up because my brother in law caught her smoking crack. OK fast forward to December 2006
    My brother in law had gotten a job and they were living in my father in laws living room. He was doing well at the job making good money. They never offered my father in law any money for rent, FOOD, internet bills (my father in law has no clue about a computer) cable etc. I thought at the time ok he is letting them save some money to get their own apartment.
    Fast forward to FEB 2007. My brother in laws girlfriend goes down to Florida for a week to visit her family and to show them her new baby. (By the way she has 2 other kids in Florida that she just got up and left to come to NJ with my brother in law. I never found out the whole story but supposedly her family dislikes her and she told me her 2 ex husbands were abusers so she left them and left her kids with them because she couldn’t take care of them. ) She comes back and she is a totally different person very B**chy nasty person she was not like that before she left. But whatever people change I guess.
    My brother in law has had a bad back since working in Florida. When he came to NJ he had gotten a job with a construction site and that is how he was making some money. Well in fib supposedly he hurt his back. He told the company that he needed to be out a while. After a few weeks the job said they would lay him off so he could collect unemployment (mind you he had not worked there for a year yet) I saw him everyday there was NOTHING wrong with his back. As soon as his insurance kicked in (they have to work like 400 hours before they could start getting benefits.)
    They both went to the DR non stop. She was seeing a psychirist , he was seeing who knows. They were both on percesets and oxycodine and zanek. They were bouncing from dr to dr to pharmacist to pharmacists. IT was so sad how people could change in a matter of months
    April / March he is addicted to prescription drugs and so is she living in my father in laws living room. My father in law buys a new truck and gives the old on to my brother in law. With the agreement of paying him 1800. Now my father in law has giving these people everything but an organ of his body. Let them live in his house rent and bill free mind you food included gave them a truck to use so they could sell the one they had … They reported a false burglary also. They said that the truck my father in law gave them was broken into. We live off a busy town street and there are always people outside. They reported that 96 percesets were stolen from the truck. And he cops actually came over to speak with my father in law because the truck was in his name. We all think that they took all those pills thought about this ridiculous lie to get more pills. I have lived in that town 28 years I have never ever locked my car doors. I sometimes for get my camera. Wallet, cell phone, my sons DVD player all in the car with the doors unlocked never once did I ever get broken in to... SO when they told us that entire story I think that is when we knew they had changed.

    April my brother in law gets locked up for a felony warrant for a robbery he did a few years back (no wonder why he left pa and went to FLA !!!) she he gets locked up in jail yet once again . And yet again my father in law is by his side. While all that happened his girlfriend looses her mind even more.

    Father in law left to go on a cruise to get away from my brother in law and his girlfriend and the baby.
    Gets hurt on the trip had to move in with his fiancé.
    My brother in law and his girlfriend try to take over the house. Complain that they never get a chance to do their laundry that me and my sister in law (lives in basement) is always doing laundry…. WELL I and my sister in law work full time jobs. We work from 7.30 to 5.30 she had all day to do laundry. That whole thing blew up into this huge fight.
    Father in law got tired of all the drama and stress they were causing this family told them to leave.
    My brother in laws girlfriend calls up the aunt upstairs calls her an F**kin C*nt! She is a 60 year old woman. How dare she call her? She called up my father in law told him he did this to them. They have no money no nothing hence neither work and are drug addicts. Spend the money they have on beer, cigarettes and pills. I was also told my brother in law went to the dr he had some back pain and they prescribed him morphine.
    Father in law apologized to me last night on how he should have listened to all of us and just let them move to the friend’s house instead of coming here. He said none of this would have happened then.
    He is changing the locks on the doors today and we are getting a lock for the garage that we all use for storage. I hope it will keep them out of our stuff. I still thing we should get an order of protection so they never come back near that house. We are all scared the way they have been acting we don’t know what extent they will take this all to. So yes we are scared for our lives. !!
    Any suggestions on what we can do? I know it’s long and probably confusing since it is so long.
    Thanks for reading.
    Desperate for some answers.
    Thanks

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    Default Re: Worried About Getting Robbed or Burgled

    I think you guys have good reason to be scared and if I were you I would get a restraining order and buy a weapon to defend yourselves. You have already stated they have mental cases going on .. people like this use this for their defense after they do the crime. The father has to realize his son is too far gone to help now , it is about protecting himself and the rest of the family. Don't be foolish like so many other dead folks.

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    Default Re: Worried About Getting Robbed or Burgled

    Did i say she has a lawsuit on walmart. she said "she fell on her ass and she cant work now " Come on. she is living such lies and i just dont know.
    I know. I know TV is TV but that is how I learn about losers like this I never had to deal with anything like this until my brother in law came to visit. There was one show or news I caught and it said how the son killed the whole family he was on the drug oxycodine.. That’s one of the pills they are on!! That is what is making me scared they are goin to have one more check from where ever then after that they will not have anything. I would not put it pass them to rob us or worse try to hurt someone for money. My father in law is living at his fiancé’s house. Can I myself get a restraining order on my brother in law and his girlfriend? (not to sure how my husband would feel but his aunt is upstairs and she and I are scared they are going to break in a do something either to us or the house ) get this the girlfriend (kathy) called up my father in law's fiancé and call her a ton of curse words. Couple days later my brother in law calls up his father and his father says well Kathy blew it that his fiancé was going to give you her old furniture (they have nothing) my brother in law hung up on his father and Kathy called the fiancé and tried to apologized to the fiancé so they could get the furniture.
    See how manipulative this girl is. She calls all us all these foul names then when she wants something she thinks sorry is going to help her. I hope not I hope that my father in law's fiancé has more brains then that. Kathy does not a nice bone in her body she is very deceitful, manipulative person. She uses people as a play piece in her crazy life.... First it was the bed ridden granmother , then it was her boyfriend husband what ever my brother in law is to her, then they use the baby. they want people to feel bad for them.

    What are my rights as a renter in my father in laws house. ? i am a scared citizen !!

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