ok i have barely any money, he has a lot. He has recieved countless inheritances during our 10 yrs, but we have always kept finances separate. I dont want his. Pretty much the last 5 yrs has been a mine is mine his is his thing. We share no titles. we live separatly, i have put all his things in storage for him, he still stays constantly which i HATE. Right now we carpool to school together which is a 53 minute drive. I hate that too. I am going to be putting my schooling off for a semester or two so that we dont have to deal with eachother after he realizes once again what my intentions are. whatever he wants he gets. i will not fight him, except on the matter of my kids. I have had them and raised them 99.9% of the time, and his sister had them the other .1% never him. he is a pc290 registrant so i do not believe he will even be able to obtain custody if he tries. hmm... anyone know about that? pc 290 in cali on sexual battery charges? I am in counseling and have been for 8 years. She gave me the small amount of courage i have right now. he has been in prison for the past 2 years, is in recovery from 8 yrs of meth. we are only 27. As long as he remains clean sober and civil he can have unlimited visiting with the kids. I will not punish them for our problems. my oldest 2 are pushing for a divorce. my 9 yr old is also in counseling because of his father issues. he claims to hate him. so i think california says kids cant choose if they are under 13... based on his criminal history he doesnt have much of a chance right? money doesnt buy children around here does it? I have never been in jail, i dont drink or smoke, or do drugs. I am a strong believer in Karma and teach my kids the same. I am scared. Sorry this is so long

