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    Default Contact By an Ex who Obtained a Protection Order

    Ok ,i will try to make this short.My ex-girlfriend and i threathing each other on the phone,but she recorded my threat and had me arrested.Judge put me on probation and told us to have no contact for a year.The day we left the courtroom she start calling me ,i didn`t answer the phone.So i went to the police with recorded messages she left on my phone,pictures of my caller id,and police reports,but nothing was done.All of that was before the pre-trail,which they said no contact.The next day after the courtroom she call from an unknown number,i answer and recorded her on the phone.She told me the judge say it was ok for us to talk and i can call her.Mind you i still had feelings for her.So i call her back,but to find later she lied about the judge saying that.
    So what can i do ?I think she used me and try to set me up at the same time.What legal advice can u give me about this?She had me arrested because she was so-call afraid,but turn around and contact me and use me?Is there some can of law against that?I want her arrest for perjury at least,because she lied to the judge and i have proof.
    please help,thanks
    also i`m in ALABAMA

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    Ok ,i will try to make this short.My ex-girlfriend and i threathing each other on the phone,but she recorded my threat and had me arrested.Judge put me on probation and told us to have no contact for a year.The day we left the courtroom she start calling me ,i didn`t answer the phone.So i went to the police with recorded messages she left on my phone,pictures of my caller id,and police reports,but nothing was done.All of that was before the pre-trail,which they said no contact.The next day after the courtroom she call from an unknown number,i answer and recorded her on the phone.She told me the judge say it was ok for us to talk and i can call her.Mind you i still had feelings for her.So i call her back,but to find later she lied about the judge saying that.
    So what can i do ?I think she used me and try to set me up at the same time.What legal advice can u give me about this?She had me arrested because she was so-call afraid,but turn around and contact me and use me?Is there some can of law against that?I want her arrest for perjury at least,because she lied to the judge and i have proof.
    please help,thanks
    also i`m in ALABAMA
    How did she lie to the Judge?
    From your post, it seems that she lied to YOU, then you made a bad decision to believe her, and called her. Basically, you violated probation and you cannot explain that away.

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    Default Re: Contact By an Ex who Obtained a Protection Order

    She's either going to report the contact, in which case you and your lawyer can try to use your recordings as part of your defense, or not, in which case it doesn't matter. But don't make the same mistake again.

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    How did she lie to the Judge?
    From your post, it seems that she lied to YOU, then you made a bad decision to believe her, and called her. Basically, you violated probation and you cannot explain that away.
    so u saying that she can request a no contact order(which she did)and turn around and break it by callin me ,and nothing can be done about it?

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    Default Re: Contact By an Ex who Obtained a Protection Order

    The order is against you, not her. If you wish to try to have the order set aside, hire a lawyer and try.

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    The order is against you, not her. If you wish to try to have the order set aside, hire a lawyer and try.
    so whats my chances of getting this set aside?

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    Default Re: Contact By an Ex who Obtained a Protection Order

    That's a question you need to ask your lawyer.

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    How did she lie to the Judge?
    From your post, it seems that she lied to YOU, then you made a bad decision to believe her, and called her. Basically, you violated probation and you cannot explain that away.
    she told the judge i was outside her place looking thru her window and following her,but i was in Florida working for two weeks ,and i have the hotel reciept(sp?).

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    Default Re: Contact By an Ex who Obtained a Protection Order

    Then provide those reciepts to judge or your Attorney

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    That's a question you need to ask your lawyer.
    one more question,do u think i can get my lawyer get her charge for perjury?i just feel like i`ve been railraod,also i had to fire my first lawyer,because he didn`t present my side of the story and things i have to support my side.so i all is to try to tell my side of this and get a fair ruling,also that shed lied.

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