My mother remarried 25+ years after divorce from my father. Her new husband is from California, they met in Ga and are now living in NC.
He had no drivers license and expressed no interst in obtaining one, said it expired many years ago and, since he has no car, why bother. He uses my mothers second car and drives everywhere.
In California, 35 years ago, he said he served time for drug trafficking. He has no contact with his biological children and his first wife is dead of cancer.
Something about him just doesn't sit right with me. He has no birth certificate, no SS card,no personal records at all. He was nice to my wife, daughter and myself while we visited last week.
My mother wants to come Canada to visit often and wants him to come along, but no passport. He has been putting off gathering paperwork for FBI background checks, getting a license and birth certificate, isn't interested in getting a passport.... nothing. Its as though he trying to stay under the radar, so to speak.
I know my mother doesn't want to see his faults, and I don't want to bring to her attention. She really wants to believe this guy is OK, but I'm not so sure.
How can I find out about his charges and background in California, GA and NC without his consent or knowledge? I checked with Dept of Corrections in Ga and cannot find any info on him. Does Cali or NC have a similar site. I have not been able to find one. Maybe someone here knows????

