Hello there
I am in the greatest trouble of my life. I am a student in a US university and on F1 visa.
I was having an affair with a girl. But because of heavy misunderstanding that girl put me in big trouble.
I got arrested in the month of July. I have 2 misdeam. charges. The first one is 'Stalking' and the second one is 'Improper Phone Messaging'.
I am out on bail. I talked to the dean of the school. He realized the gravity and sensitivity of the situation and said that he does not feel that i was stalking the girl. And i can continue my education in this university. My tution fee waiver and scholarship are both retained.
But i still have court case pending. In the middle of August, girl filed for a court case requesting ' Protective Order ' on me. But Judge said that she does not have enough evidence which can show that i was really threatening for her. So the request for Protective order was dismissed.
But i still have court case pending for which i was arrested.
My questions are :
1 ) How these 2 misdemean charges are going to affect my visa status ?
2) is the fact that i have been arrested in the record ? And when i will apply for Phd (and or Job) then will it bother me ?
3) what will happen if i won the case ? Will still the arrest be on my record ?
4) what will if the girl drop the charges ?
5) Does INS know about this ? School says that INS will not create problem because school has accepted me. It would be a problem if School had thrown me out from the school.
5) At this point i dont know what i should ask to the people in this forum. Please tell me which i dont know.
I am really mentally disturbed.
Thanks in advance.

