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I agree with the above poster. He will most likely get ( if he wants ), every other weekend, maybe a night during the week. A couple weeks per year vacation, and split holidays.
Remember, you had a baby with him. He is the father, and don't shut him out. I know you think that he's turning into a bad dad, who's taking advantage of you. But if browse these boards, you might see that you have it fairly good right now. He makes an effort to be in the childs life.
He pays daycare, and gives money when asked.
There's alot of women who would kill to have that.
As for the crap he put you through ( cheating, getting someone pregnant), be very careful bringing that up in court. Alot of the time, the courts don't care. not to mention, unless you are wife/mother of the year, it very well may backfire on you.
Agreed. His infidelity has nothing to do legally with the child...It is irrelevant. Per your post, your stbx is not having overnights and doesn't NEED to have a bedroom set up for her. When my ex was having visitation with our daughter she slept in a porta-crib. She lived.

Do not allow your disappointment in the break-up of your marriage to interfere with your DAUGHTERS right to have a relationship with her father. As CP it your responsibility to facilitate this relationship.