My ex and I divorced in 2003. AL court awarded $870--a year and half later I was promoted and stationed in Korea-she asked for increase ..i did to $1000. A couple years later she wanted $1500 after my next promtion- we agreed to $1300, I was in Iraq then. Last year I remarried she asked for $1500. A lawyer told me to stop and go back to the original agreement and let the courts decide because she wont ever be satisfied. We now both live in Ga. My ex has been thru 4 new cars in the last 4 years-and I buy most of all the kids clothes and toys, and she pays no daycare-my daughter is 14 so she leaves them home alone. I am now about to leave Iraq again- she has thus served me since I been here for more money. I am also about to get a reenlistment bonus. In preparation for this much dreaded return, can you offer me any advice? Should I hire a lawyer or does the court use a standard formula? Can she get some of my bonus? will my generosity throughout the years be considered?