sounds as though you have suffered a good bit from this situation... i do feel sorry for you and the fact that it has been ongoing and over your head preventig you from really starting your life(educational training and a higher position available in the company you have been with)
i really do hope that someone here can try and help you understand what is going on and the possible outcomes... because i really have no idea...
also as far as i know as long as you go though the process and follow everthing they say and go to your court apperance ther will be no warrant issued for your arrest... so you could quite possibly go on your trip if your sure you could return home if anything came up..

