this is kind of strange so bear with me. two years ago i met i man who was here in Arkansas . on a construction job. we hit it off , he told me he was legally separated from his wife. unintentionaly i got pregnant and he left me to go back to his wife. they live 9 hours away in Texas. they are about to have their first baby this month. the child i had by him is 10 months old now , he has seen her three short times. not totalling 24 hours all together. he pays child support and carries insurance her. this week we go to court over child visitation. i am concerned about out of town and overnight unsupervised visits because of the age of the child, distance between us and the fact that his wife has ALOT of hard feelings due to the fact that he got me pregnant while they were still legally married. what is going to be the best for the child?

