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    Default Boyfriend On Probation Charged With Second Degree Assault

    Help please. I do not want my boyfriend to go to jail but I also will not lie for him on the stand. Apparently since I am the victim and this is not his first offense, he had a 32,000.00 bail bond and I am not allowed to drop the charges. He was already on probation for assault and if found in violation he will go away for up to 10 years. He is a single father of a 10 year old and I do not want his child to suffer all becasue his dad lost control and put his hands on me when I was yelling at him. He was cheating on me and refused to break up with me. He wants two women and I will not tolerate it. My heart is breaking. What is the right thing to do?>

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    Default Re: states attny against boyfiend 2nd degree assault

    this is not the first time he has hurt me. it is the first time I stood up for myself and called the police. he has hurt me much worse in the past. he says he loves me and that the other woman is just serving a purpose but according to the other woman, she has been his girlfriend for over a year. what about me? I have been him girlfriend for over 4 years! He also has an ex wife with benefits! Dog. One side of my wants to be vindictive and see him locked up and the other side has pity on his son. do i mold the truth to get him off or do I tell the truth and let happen what will happen becasue enough is enough? He did not REALLY choke me, just applied enough pressure to leave red marks for up to 1 hour!!

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    Default Re: Boyfriend On Probation Charged With Second Degree Assault

    First thing to remind yourself is that HE did this ... if his child suffers because of dad's absence, HE (dad) did it, not you. But, it is far better for dad to be away if he has this kind of temper lest his son develop a skewed picture of what relationships are all about ... they say the apple does not fall far from the tree in these situations.

    - Carl

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