so what happened to the cybersex?
In this thread, you relate a totally different situation that in the other thread. Which is it?
If you acatually do have a different question, it needs to be explained a bit better. You asked if it is harrassment if you chat (which you are allowed to do) and nothing else. How could that be considered harrassment?
I say that we've already discussed this in detail on another board and yes, you can get in trouble for this.
You do not seem to understand that it doesn't matter what you think or what she thinks. If your EMPLOYER has a problem with it, you can be disciplined or fired regardless of whether she complains or not.