My X & 20 year old daughter are moving from NY to SC and leaving our 2 x 19 year old boys behind (which I call abandonment). My door is open to the boys, but they want to try to make it on their own and not move in with me for the time being. All three were attending college, but have decided to take a break - actually the boys flunked out due to excess screwing around.
I have custody of one of the boys (it was either live with dad or go to reform school), but my ex has custody of the other boy and my daughter. My daughter has a full time job lined up in SC and will have no living expenses except for auto insurance, gas and food (she will be living rent free with her uncle in SC).
Here's my question: How would I go about getting my daughter emancipated if she's in SC? I'm sure she'd be cooperative. How should I go about terminating child support being paid to my X? Should I attempt to get custody of the other boy transferred to me even though he’s not living with me at the moment? Or should I attempt to get the boys emancipated too??
Any guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you for your time.