Stay with me, here.
To have a claim for defamation, here is what must happen.
Someone must make a false statement about you.
They must make that statement to a third party (not to you yourself).
As a result of their making that statement, you must suffer damages (think money).
Now, I'm going to ask you again. What false statement was made to what third party, and what damages did you suffer because of the statement to the third party?

