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    It's not stupid to want to make up for doing something wrong, but I'd recommend not contacting the store or the security officer. If you never get a receipt so be it, just take things day at a time and move forward.....you'll be alright. Maybe the security guy WAS giving you a break....take it and try to relax a little.....OK?

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    Paul!
    I am trying to move on and live my life. The problem is that I cannot tell anyone about this - the former extended family loves my child, but I have no doubt that they would judge me terribly and change towards me if they found out. I can admit that I made a mistake, but not to them - and they are the only ones to count on to take care of my child should, God forbid, anything happen. Should I write an emergency letter to them to be read only if?
    The problem is that I am aware that this would really destroy my life..I have made an appointment to see a therapist to discuss this issue, and many others that I believe contributed to my current situation...I think I am strong enough to move on, and I am not a quitter - I usually have a very positive attitude to any problem - and I have had a bunch, believe me, but not to stand the embarassment in front of the people who anyway look for any reason to disapprove me - and certaily not to look in these people's eyes...Not to mention that I would loose my job and, with my anyway shaky situation (I have a divorce and bancrupcy behind me so my credit is even to 0!)- I would be ruined. I could not even afford legal representation...
    Most of the day I manage to get it of my mind, work and take care of my daughter..But when the night comes, my ghoasts and fear come back and are hard to bear..I wish I had a friend to confide in, but I do not have anyone I would trust enough not to change their mind about me...I wonder how would I take such a news from a frienda few months ago.. I want to believe that I would not turn my back.
    Even though I have no clue who you are, you are the only person I talk to about this, and I want you to know that I appreciate it. Any comment makes a huge difference to me.
    I know if I could be sure that no legal consequences are due, I could handle it from now on. If I only thought about this before, anyone would say. But I haven't, so here I am!

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    Maybe the therapist will help chase away the ghosts, if you go to church perhaps talk to a minister. Go easy on yourself, you're doing more to yourself than the court would have. You'll be alright fedora, just give it some time.

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