We have split residential custody( physical) ,but she is still primary legal. She avoided me, and moved away with my son(I don't know where he or she is at anymore). It has now been 8 months since I have seen him. I have begun to file for contempt since she is violating the court order(forms are damn confusing I might add). Since she basically "stole" him from me is there something better I can do?
I also made a huge mistake. I refused to pay child support for the above mentioned reasons. I thought paying her to not let me see my son was stupid. The court sees it differently. Will this hurt my chances of seeing my son?

