i have discussed with an immigration lawyer.
Basically she said to send the interview letter back withdrawing it.
Then she said to divorce him.
Finally she said they will send me a letter for deportation! To give her a call after i get that letter.

Now..i've neen in the US for over 20 yrs.
I have no family in Spain.
My family is all here in the U.S.
And i will be taking my son away from his father (US citizen)

I dont get this system?
Any other advice will be of much use.
Thanks Aaron.