Virginia- My girlfriend's (at the time) work visa expired last year without her knowing because her employer didn't give her the documents. We found out after the 6 month time period and she became illegal. We got married the next month in Vegas (OCT 06) so we could be together and be married. I really love this girl and thought that she wanted to marry me for the marriage, and not to be able to stay in the states. The beginning was very difficult because she had to file for her work approval and wasn't working. She'd also been away from her home country for 4+ years and was expecting to travel back there when she got her Advanced Parole. The entire time we were together all she wanted to do was go to her country. This consumed her and our marriage was really bad. She actually left to go see her mother (in the states) without telling me anything and she didn't come back until a couple of weeks later, and a lot of prodding from me. She finally got approval for Advanced Parole in June 07. Also, we had our interview for her Green Card and we received a stamp. The immigration lady said she could travel with this but would be better waiting for 2 weeks until she received it in the mail. She couldn't wait any more so left at the end of June to go see her family for only 2 weeks (we agreed to this). Well, this has turned into 6 weeks. She was worried about traveling back on Advanced Parole because the immigration lady called her (She told me this after she left ) and told her not to travel with the Green Card stamp because the FBI background check wasn't complete and she shouldn't have stamped it. Well, my wife told me she was finally coming back. Then her mom called me the next day (July 30,07) and said she was not coming back now. That was about 5 days ago and I haven't heard anything from her since. I feel that she married me so she wouldn't be deported, and after she received her Advanced Parole and Green Card process, she left and now says that she doesn't want to come back and possibly doesn't love me anymore (heard this from her mom). Long story, thanks for listening. Here is my question: If I get an annulment, how will this affect her I-485 application? Her Advanced Parole paper work? Her ability to stay in the US? Do I have to report this to USCIS? Thanks for the help. I'm still praying that she will contact me and come back, but now that I look back on the past 9 months, I see a lot of signs that should have been red flags. Thanks again.


