We got married five years ago, in Erie, Pa. I moved out 1 yr later and he moved his girlfriend in. We had a custody arrangement filed up there, and then he moved to California with his girlfriend and I moved in with my parents (took our two kids) to West Virginia.
For four years his precense has been almost nothing as far as the children go. His financial support has been nonexistant.
So four years later I finally get the spirit to go out into the world and try again, make the decision to move to Florida with a man who is really amazing to me and our kids. Were planning the move for the first weekend of September. I tell him and give him the new address so he has a new place to not send support to. and Then today..
Today I get divorce papers handed to me from california and they say I cant leave the state until the things done with. He wont respond to my asking for his permission to go, and I dont know what the hell it would matter or if it just applies to California and I cant find the answer on the net. So if anyone knows California laws and could touch base on the subject for me it would be greatly appreciated.
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