I have a friend who had a baby girl (she is currently now 4 years old), she left the relationship before the father knew she was pregnant. On the birth certificate she had put down (n/a on the name of father). These last years she has gotten married and had more children. Now her current husband wants to adopt the daughter, how do you go about handling the adoption, even though the birthfather has no clue he has a child and also the mother does not want any contact with him.

