My husband and I moved to NC from IL. Forty days after we relocated, he asked for a trial seperation, so I went to home to IL to visit. Two weeks later he informed me he has someone else, asked for a divorce, and requested I stay in IL. It has been three weeks and I am returning to NC only to arrange to move the remainder of my things. We have one minor child. My questions:
1. Where do I file for divorce? I haven't lived in NC long enough to establish residency and I lived in IL for thiry years prior to moving.
2. Should I remain in NC until the divorce is final or is it acceptable for me to move back home?
3. Since technically I am leaving our residence (granted I lived there only forty days) and the state, will it be considered abandonment on my part?
Thanks for any help.

