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    Default Married And Pregnant With Boyfriend's Child

    I am married and pregnant. But the father is not my husband.
    I am starting the divorce procedure, which will be friendly, but won't be divorced yet when I deliver (one month away).

    Both me, my husband and my boyfriend, who is the biological father, agree that my boyfriend should be the legal father and there is no dispute whatsoever. All three of us just want to resolve this as smoothly as possible.

    How do I proceed?

    I am aware of the declaration of paternity form, but it states that I cannot sign it if I am married. So what to do?

    We live in California

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    Default Re: Married And Pregnant With Boyfriend's Child

    You would raise the issue of nonpaternity in the divorce proceedings. Paternity can be determined by a DNA test after the child is born.

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    Default Re: Married And Pregnant With Boyfriend's Child

    Thank you.

    I want to do the divorce myself, in addition to the usual documents, what additional documents do I need?

    Could I have:
    - my husband sign a notarized statement that he is not the father and that he wants to be taken off the birth certificate.
    - my boyfriend sign a notarized statement that he is the biological father and be recorded as such on the birth certificate.
    - me and my boyfriend sign a notarized statements that we are both the caretakers of this child.

    Would that be sufficient?

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