My wife of eight years married me to get her papers, which was fine because I loved her, and I didn't know better. Now that she has spent the last three years (after getting her citizenship status) she has been making my life hell by demanding a child, me moving to the suburbs, living with her mom, and so on, well I gave into everything, but turns out she was just using excuses for me to leave, and she had been seeing guys behind my back. Now she has met a guy that is a microsoft employee and is rich, but he needs papers. I need to know what the rules are here in Washington as far as how boned I am property wise, I was a student and lived in the city, she spent her money on a house where her mom and brother lived. I have no money, and a low paying job, she was able to get a city job while I was in school, but when she deicided she wanted to have kids and me to convert to her religion...live with her mom...and so on I was no longer able to concentrate at school and finally dropped out. She has ruined me in every way, and now she wants a divorce, and my name is on nothing. Also I was told there is something I can do with INS to make it so she can't marry another man to get him his papers. Please help, my life sucks, she has spent the last year telling me that she needed some space but we would get back together and have children (now that I gave in) and then I lost my apartment to condo conversions (so I was finally able to move in, but it turned out she was seeing this other guy on a very intimate level) I had to sleep in the other room because she told me it was over, and they were next door having sex, then even when she decided to give me another chance she would go on weekend trips with him to Florida, Oregon, and California and not talk to me until she returned in four days, I have used every bit of strenght trying to fix this relationship over the last year, and now I don't sleep, shake, and cry most of the day, I finally lost it and decided it was over and when I tried to over-dose she sent me to my room and told me to sleep it off and didn't even call the police. This could be a slightly skewed view, I am sure she did love me at times, and I know if I do find a way to fix this I will write one hell of a book about it.

