So "volunteering" allows a person to post crap like this.
Yes. It was never a hidden part of me but have been living as myself for some time. My kids have all done well and very accepting and a source of encouragement.
Law/GAL that volunteers there.
Have you and your partner considered moving to a more LGBTQ friendly state such as Massachusetts? One can avoid the outrageous rent/home cost if you move to the central/western part of the state...although western Mass is, in general, more conservative.
But, to be clear, no state will allow you to adopt your legal child.
Harold99 posts for no other reason than to take shots at senior members of the forum and lawyers in general. *It would be wise to ignore whatever he writes. While the person posting under the name of Harold99 has been banned from this site at least 3 times but, due to the current lack of moderation, he isn’t being banned. Hopefully, that will change in the future but for now, we have to live with it.
For now, I suggest you simply ignore his posts but if you do read them please read any responses posted by the more rational members.
This seems to be driven purely by the OP's self-interest, and not about concern for the children.
At this point, you're just arguing. You're not going to get anything more from any online forum than you've already gotten. If you want to pursue this, retain the services of a local attorney.