"It feels like I'm being raped. That may be an exaggeration, but what I am trying to say is that I was treated unfairly. This is why I am fighting.

If you were walking down a dark street and a couple of guys grab you, and says aye give us your money. You might pay.
However, if those same set of guys says aye pull your pants down so we can rape you. Your likely going to fight.
This is the best way I can explain how I feel about this situation..."

Unless you have been physically sexually assaulted, no this is NOT anything like rape. Please stop using that analogy EVER. It downplays people who have been sexually assaulted who will live with those consequences FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES.

You chose to have sex with and later a child with this person. You or they chose to not stay together and a custody order was granted with child support. While you might not have agreed with it, it was what was required by the courts based on YOUR decisions. Rape/Sexual assault is not and should not be blamed on the victim. You want to be the victim here, but YOU made choices to be in the situation your were in. I like how you've conveniently left out WHY you got into 2-3 years of arrears anyway.

I do apologize in advance, but using RAPE as an example of how you are "feeling" about this? It's just WRONG!