
Quoting
Bnkstersam
That is where i was confused. this happened just a few days short from Christmas. Pertaining to the door, my Ex boyfriend of 7 yrs and the father of my 4 yr old child; had shoved on the ground and his 220 lbs body; positioned laying face first in the floor/chest. Applied his body weight on my back rib/chest area. after numerous of times begging for me to get off, he just put his hand over my mouth and said "ssshhh, your gonna die tonight b***h". I had to act like i stopped breather, once i did, he got up like nothing happened, unlocked the door and that's when i jumped up and rushed out the door. Its like the BPD didn't believe me. I was so frightened i had urinated myself, tank top shirt was ripped on one shoulder, pants ribbed, and i had bit my tongue so hard when i was crying out for help Officer took no pictures or documented any injuries.
After being lowered in by his mother that ha only been staying at our residents for 2 months lowered my into her room, where i thought she was gonna help me, come o find out i was wrong, than again i was locked into her room so i couldn't go out side and call 911. So i tried to kick out one of the windows (and at this time i had my daughter around my hip holding her) finally i got her door unlocked and ran out the front door. Went to three different neighbors knocking no one answered. I seen a bi-standard walking down the street, so i ran to him and called 911 on his phone. Thats why im so confused, this is serious to me and i feel like i was a joke to them, I called BPD, they said that the DA office picked up the charges, so i called them. I was on the phone with them for twenty minutes. In their words told me they had picked up the case but the recorded officer and asked for the case to get re sent back to them, than they closed the whole case due to "not enough evidence". to call the BPD office and ask to talk to the reported officer and him to re open the case ad if he doesn't, after 30 days i can go into the DA office and file a walk-in-complaint" but cannot due so until the 30 day wait period.
I had already filed for a EPO but was up in 5 days, and even tho we purchased our home together that is paid off, his name was the only name on the paper work, so he made me and our daughter leave after the 5 days. He didn't have any consciousness were nothing, NOT EVEN CLASSES. This was his third documented on paper with the police. First, i was able to drop it with the DA, i don't know how i was able too, second' a warrant was issued but never went further than that.
Yes i am aware from this man, thank you. I'm not trying to be be bitter and get him in trouble, but this is crazy ow nothing is being done, the evidence was there, injuries were there, there were even 3 different witness at our home, but only stated to the police that they were not in the room with the accident took place but heard me yelling and screaming for help and that's when they tried to come in.
Am i being tossed around ya'all think, or did they DA really drop chargers, or was it the BPD? And why would the reporting officer not document any of my injures or statements i told them, or took me serious. I was in shock, my mind was racing so fast. Also, why would the receptionist tell me after i handed her over the photos i took the next day of my back and ribs with dark big bruises, or bit tongue and busted lip, that she scanned them into the case file, only to find out, there was no pictures added at all.
i don't know what to do, iv called family justice center, legal law, legal advise, when i applied for child support informed my case worker, and reached out for help with the department of human services, with no luck.