budwad, I'm pretty shocked and offended at the assumptions you've made here, and your tone. Is that typical of this forum, to be attacked unnecessarily for asking a question? Also to eerelations, we're lay people, not attorneys. It's why we came here to ask. We were discussing this and not sure of the legal obligation. Two "senior members" made rather hurtful inferences and I'm surprised, but hey, it's the internet.

We help all of our children from both marriages, as best we can. I have been laid off and we are trying to assess our finances and budget going forward. My wife is also having a lot of health issues and I would like her to stop working, as her work travel is a primary cause. I'm also having some health issues. We're not spring chickens. Thank goodness we asked because we weren't aware of the requirement to formally request the end of support when the time comes.

It's more than I wanted to share here, but I felt it necessary to defend us to some extent.

PS You it's spelled "college," not "collage" (irony).