This guy was a real piece of work, though. He was a narcissist who would push the boundaries on everything. He once threatened me and my entire family in a manner leaving me without a darn thing I could legally do about except get him banned from school property where his kids went to school with mine, and where my wife worked ... I had pull with the school district AND he had already caused problems there. He was also the reason I started carrying off duty even in my hometown.