I just heard back from the compliance officer after replying with your statement: "ll be happy to respond in an appropriate manner. However, I'm not going to volunteer information about our relationship without having any specifics of what I'm being accused of doing."
The compliance officer encouraged me to simply cooperate as best as I can...
Honestly it FEELS like batshit crazy, but I believe it would benefit my case to extrapolate on our relationship as I can provide texts, calls, and picture evidence that could put an end to this sooner rather than later.
If I continue to sit here and tell them "this is absurd, I'll respond to only specific allegations," that would look guilty right?
Btw, "they" are the compliance officer, the campus security director, and the associate dean.