
Quoting
BossMommy88
Some of the responses to mothers on this forum are outrageous and downright delusional. So I should force my children into a relationship with a meth addict who has a high probability of relapsing again because this isn’t the first time. Not every woman knows what they’re getting into with these deadbeat men it’s not like they meet you and say “Hi I have a hidden drug and mental health problems. Let’s make babies.” Some men are VERY manipulative and VERY good and pretending to be someone they aren’t for YEARS. My children are happy, healthy they have an amazing father figure in their lives. What’s the point of forcing this stranger on them? Gradually introducing him back into their lives through supervised visitation is the clear best option here. As far as “deserving” child support I stand by that 100%. I make over 70k per year and still live poor so that these kids can have the world. It’s time me and my children get to live comfortably as we deserve.
Can’t really poison a relationship that doesn’t yet exist... And the biggest problem is who knows if he is here to stay he’s been in and out of prison all his life high chance in a few years he’ll be back.
And I really don’t like the attitude of “Well, you chose him.” Well, I didn’t know all this about him at that time. If I have the opportunity NOW to keep my children safe from a reckless suicidal meth head then I’m going to do everything in my power to protect them from that. Doesn’t matter if he’s their “father” or not. If he swears he’s “reformed” then he needs to prove it.
That’s how these kids on the news end up dead. No one will step up and cut a parent out whenever they’ve shown they’re not mentally stable.