I have been with my bf for 2 years. His lease was up and he wanted to get a larger place so that we could all move in together. I sold my house house and put everything in storage. my BF is divorced and has 3 kids. He could not qualify for the lease without my income. We found a place, applied and were approved. I paid the deposits and thought everything was fine and was gearing up to move in. The day after the lease was signed he informed me he just realized his divorce decree states he cannot have anyone of the opposite sex that is not related by blood or marriage stay the night when the kids are there. He has primary custody of the kids so it means I can only stay at the house 10 days a month at most.
Im not sure if he was aware of this beforehand or if he just realized it later. I look at this as a problem he has with his ex and its not grounds to keep me from moving in but he seems to think his divorce overrides my tenant rights. I have not been staying at the house and have been staying with friends. I know this isn't a reason we can break the lease.
My real question is should I just put my foot down, move in and and force him out or let him deal with the consequences in court with his Ex? I can afford the house on my own as I make 5 times his income. I just find it hard to believe his divorce decree has anything to do with my tenant rights as he says.