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pg1067
Your friend may have some practical experience with bankruptcy, but that hardly qualifies him to opinion about the law on this issue. Your interests in your family members' homes are, of course, assets, but that doesn't mean you'd have to sell them. For starters, the only way you can sell something is by finding a willing buyer. If your family members can't afford to buy you out, that would mean selling to an unrelated party, and virtually no one is going to want to own a 1/3 interest in your parents' home (or is it one of your sister's home?) with your sisters or a 1/2 interest in your granddaughter's home. At a minimum, I can virtually guarantee that no one will pay 1/3 or 1/2 the fair market value. By the way, why do you own these interests in the first place?
"Judgment proof" is a colloquialism that refers to a person whose situation is such that a person holding a judgment against the judgment proof person cannot effectively enforce it. The two most common ways of enforcing civil money judgments against individuals are wage garnishments and bank levies. Since you receive no income other than social security, that means you have no wages to be garnished. Social security income is exempt. While a creditor could levy on your bank account, the bank may have an obligation to reject the levy because the only money in the account is from an exempt source. While there are other things a creditor could do, those things are very uncommon and may not be possible. Yes, the creditor created a judgment lien, and yes, that lien is preventing you from refinancing, but creating a lien and active enforcement of a judgment are very different things.
With all that said, your choices are to file bankruptcy or live with the current situation. Yes, your husband could file BK without you, but then you'd still owe the credit card debt and the lien would stay on your home. I strongly suggest you consult with a bankruptcy attorney.