My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Virginia
I, the mother, have primary and sole custody of my 9 year old son who has autism and non verbal. His biological figure has visitation everyother Sunday. He does not pay child support. He himself cannot read, write, or speak well so he is not helping my son in any way at all in life. He does not provide a stable or good enough environment for visitation. He does not drive so I am the one doing all the transportation for my son to see him.
My issue, aside from the above, is that he has the most disrespectful mouth and the worst attitude and i hate looking at him because of how he talks to me infront of my son and when hes not around. I do everything and he literally is jus a play buddy for my son. He smokes weed around my son, he leaves my son with random people I dont know of or even the adress of where they live. My son cant talk so i dont know what's going on. He doesnt feed him food that's nutritious, only pizza and I've asked him several times not to but he disrespects me and infront of my son says whatever imma do what I want. I pack food, he wont give it to him.
I finally took him out for child support for extra help for my son and he is refusing to pay because he says he wont have a place to stay and owes the irs and then fights with me. I record all conversations on the phone. What can I do? I want him gone. I cant take this anymore. My son doesnt need him. My husband has been his father since he was 1. What can I do?