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Mark47n
This is sort of painful to read.
OP, you have not explained what "married on paper" means to you. Are you LEGALLY married? I would presume so as your WIFE is seeking a divorce. If the child is 2 then the child was born during the marriage and you are the presumed father unless the bio dad steps in. The courts are highly unlikely to terminate your parental rights and bastardize the child because of a spiteful mom.
If you really want to protect your interests then you'll have to hire an attorney. If the mom has hired an attorney and you don't then prepare to get stomped on.