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Met a girl through a web site called “seeking arrangements”.
This statement, coupled with the subject header of the post, tells me this is going to be an interesting thread.


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She used an IUD during this time and made it clear she was protected and pregnancy was not going to be an issue.
Even if she were truthful about using an IUD, no method of artificial birth control is 100% effective.


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Assuming it is my child, what are my legal options?
Not really sure I understand the question. When you choose to have sex, you choose the consequences of doing so, one of which is the possibility -- no matter how remote -- that a pregnancy might result. If your paternity is established, you'll have the right to seek custody or visitation, and the noncustodial parent will have the obligation to pay child support.


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Being tricked Into paying child support for the next 18 years has to be illegal.
How does you willingly having sex equate to being "tricked into paying child support"?