Getting screwed by the system is not the main reason fewer men and women are getting married today, or why the average age of the first marriage is later than it used to be. And by the way, women still generally come out of divorce worse than men do. But hey, if it makes you feel better to think yourself a victim rather than owning up to the responsibility for your own actions, go ahead. That seems to a popular attitude for a lot of people these days. No one wants to take responsibility for anything — someone else always ought to pay, but not you, right?

