Mother is not following the order. She is supposed to drop off child and I do the pickup. During summer she do both pick up and drop off. But now she expect me to do both and to cover all expenses pay gas and toll.
The order is on alternate weekend and with me for the whole month of July. However because of work Im only taking him with me for few hours and can’t take him on July but asked her to accommodate to my schedule meaning to bring him to the city when I’m off. She is refusing to do one of the pickup and wants me to do both.
I have no other choice than to file for violation which she also did. Requesting me to do both pick up and drop off at school and on summer and holidays at a near location in her city.
We’ve been talking on the phone but after I got upset and yelled at her for not picking up she is doing everything on message.
Also, theres a situation with stepmother where Im making clear to my son that she is not his mother but stepmom. That his little brother is his brother because he is son to his mother and of course teaching him that normal is “mother and father” not “mom and mom”. He is prohibited from talking to her when He is with me and I made it clear he will get time out. Im just trying to be honest with my son.
This is what she filed for:
the entry of the order, there has been a change of circumstances in that:
I dont own a vehicle to drive to the city. I have a one year old son to take care of. My wife who owns a vehicle started a new job and works 7 days a week in order to financially support my son as father does not cover any of my child expenses.
Because of this change of circumstances, the order should be modified as follows:
Im requesting pick up on Friday at school and drop off on Monday at school. On Holidays and summer break at a public location in my city.
Father is not following visitation order. don’t take my son on alternate weekend and cancelled july. Expect me to accommodate to his scheduled but insults and get verbally aggressive if things don’t go his way.
Im concern regarding my child mental health. Father talk to my child negatively about his family. Im concern with his discriminatory behavior against my wife and I. My child always comes home crying because father don’t want him to have a relationship with my wife. I have a recording of my son crying and telling me that his father prohibits my son to talk to my wife or punish him physically if he does. My son knows my wife since he was 2 years old and consider her as family.
IT IS NORMAL FOR ONE PARENT TO DO THE PICKUP AND THE OTHER THE DROP OFF. WHY SHE MAKE IT SO DIFFICULT?