>no concern for her but only how her actions might hurt you financially.
My concern is that we cannot pay college bills and her medical expenses if money is continued to be spent on other luxury items.
Those actions will be hurting them, not hurting me as your ridiculous comments continue to say.
This is not a marriage counselling forum. Please eliminate off topic responses. I only mentioned that in my post #1 because it was necessary to know that I had no interest in pursuing that avenue at this time to get access to financial records.
I fully realize it is not legal to access any of her computerized password protected files. I think the legal process is ridiculous in that I have no way to access community property information of which I am a part.