My question involves a marriage in the state of: NY
I'm wondering what happens if both parties file divorce papers? I believe my husband pay have filed divorce papers and is trying to get me served but has been unsuccessful due to not knowing my current address (I live out of state). I retained legal representation and she plans on filing this week and handling child support and alimony also. If we both file how does that work? And assuming I am successful at serving him does that override the papers he's served?