UPDATE: Court ruled against ex, deaming that he had not been able to show Financial Hardship. He has in the last year increased his rent voluntarily by $1,300/month (+$500/month for utilities), he saves $1,400/month to his 401K, he has two vehicles (one being a HD, which he told the judge he refuses to get rid of as it is his pride and joy), he has taken three vacation in the last year, where he told the judge he took zero, he co-owns a property with me that he is refusing to sell. While in court (three times) he showed utmost disrespect to my attorney and myself, he was cocky and arrogant. I got a little peace of mind for now - yay!