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  1. #21
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    Default Re: What Are the Legal Actions I Can Do

    "The best thing you can do for Emily is to encourage her to talk to a trusted adult, whether school teacher, counselor, pastor or any other adult who is in a position to give her good guidance."

    Yes, yes, yes. The level of control you want to exert in this situation and the hubris you exhibit in your desire to appear mature is truly frightening to me. This is, in my ears, the start of a terribly controlling possibly abusive romantic relationship with a very young girl who is being controlled by her family, and now has fallen into a relationship where she is in danger of being totally controlled by you.

    Your insistence that she tell you exactly what the discipline situation is, what her parents have said, your expectation that you have contact with her every single time you want it and demand it, that you did not listen when she explained that you were not to come over, YES, you ARE the problem in her life right now!

    As far as you know, no one would be hitting her, disciplining her, taking her phone, threatening anyone except for YOUR actions. You need to go away for a few months and totally drop out of this relationship you have so massively built up inside your own head instead of having your little "I'm so mature, now we have to figure out how WE'RE going to handle this situation...you're going to run away to my house when you're eighteen, blah blah blah......" plans laid.

    If I were her parents I'd be taking every legal action necessary to make sure you stayed as far from my daughter as I could keep you.

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    Default Re: What Are the Legal Actions I Can Do

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    Just stay away until she is 18 and out of their house. It really is that simple.
    I know... trust me

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    "The best thing you can do for Emily is to encourage her to talk to a trusted adult, whether school teacher, counselor, pastor or any other adult who is in a position to give her good guidance."

    Yes, yes, yes. The level of control you want to exert in this situation and the hubris you exhibit in your desire to appear mature is truly frightening to me. This is, in my ears, the start of a terribly controlling possibly abusive romantic relationship with a very young girl who is being controlled by her family, and now has fallen into a relationship where she is in danger of being totally controlled by you.

    Your insistence that she tell you exactly what the discipline situation is, what her parents have said, your expectation that you have contact with her every single time you want it and demand it, that you did not listen when she explained that you were not to come over, YES, you ARE the problem in her life right now!

    As far as you know, no one would be hitting her, disciplining her, taking her phone, threatening anyone except for YOUR actions. You need to go away for a few months and totally drop out of this relationship you have so massively built up inside your own head instead of having your little "I'm so mature, now we have to figure out how WE'RE going to handle this situation...you're going to run away to my house when you're eighteen, blah blah blah......" plans laid.

    If I were her parents I'd be taking every legal action necessary to make sure you stayed as far from my daughter as I could keep you.
    Youíve blown this all out of proportion She is not moving in with me when she turns 18. She wanted me to come over and she let me in her house. I understand what is going on and Iím not the problem in her life right now So chill out cuz you donít know what is going on as of right now.

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    Default Re: What Are the Legal Actions I Can Do

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    I know... trust me



    You’ve blown this all out of proportion She is not moving in with me when she turns 18. She wanted me to come over and she let me in her house. I understand what is going on and I’m not the problem in her life right now So chill out cuz you don’t know what is going on as of right now.
    Her letting you in her house without her parents knowledge. Is a good way for you to get shot and possibly killed.

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    Default Re: What Are the Legal Actions I Can Do

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    White supremacists Kill black people too 卐
    Be alert for a murder
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    While I agree with most of that I saw nothing threatening or that broke any law.
    So you agree with what you saw? And it doesn't bother you? Got ya. Now I know from where you come.

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    So you agree with what you saw? And it doesn't bother you? Got ya. Now I know from where you come.
    I reported this post yesterday, how long does it take to have this guy removed? Look at his post history.
    I'm not a lawyer, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.......

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    I reported this post yesterday, how long does it take to have this guy removed? Look at his post history.
    The moderator is very parttime. But she has been contacted.

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    I reported this post yesterday, how long does it take to have this guy removed? Look at his post history.
    I don't work here any more and my actual job is keeping me hella busy right now, so.
    I'm not a lawyer, but I play a researcher on the internet!
    Caution: I bite. WARNING: Do not send questions or complaints by PM. I'm likely to post them publicly and embarrass you half to death.
    I'm training for the MS Society's Bike to the Bay - and blogging about it!

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    I don't work here any more and my actual job is keeping me hella busy right now, so.
    I never knew who did the banning on this forum, now I know...
    I'm not a lawyer, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.......

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    Default Re: Threatened by a Girlfriend's Father

    HELLO
    It's simple if she is 18 she can go away and no one can stop her

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    Default Re: Threatened by a Girlfriend's Father

    And the original thread is from a year ago.

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