Go to Goodwill or a consignment shop or heck, even Walmart and pick up a few inexpensive changes of clothing for YOUR child. Keep them at your location. Send the child back in the clothes that wore with them. Instead you expect a packed suitcase of things his mother (or others) bought for him? That's just not the way it works, even if you are paying child support. The custodial parent is not expected, by the courts, to provide for 100% of the child's needs while they are with the non-custodial parent. BE A PARENT....BE A GROWN UP! And just maybe you will get to see your child. Instead you are reinforcing any bad things he is hearing about you each and everytime you act like a jacka$$.