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  1. #1
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    Default Re: Custodial Refuses Visitation What Can I Do

    This been happening for 3 weeks now she can easily leave my child at her mother house as stated in the court order but she wants me to go to another location. Yes she offered more time but pickup at another location. Overnight but for me to buy clothes. How is that coparenting from her? This is a temporary order next court is February.

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    Default Re: Custodial Refuses Visitation What Can I Do

    And your intractability and refusal to be in the least bit accommodating will not bode well for you...I can see why she divorced you.

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    Dude, you have been told over and over how incredibly stupid it is that you refuse to take telephone calls from any number but her personal phone. That is just asinine and childish. I know what all of your excuses are, and they are just stupid.

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    Default Re: Custodial Refuses Visitation What Can I Do

    Go to Goodwill or a consignment shop or heck, even Walmart and pick up a few inexpensive changes of clothing for YOUR child. Keep them at your location. Send the child back in the clothes that wore with them. Instead you expect a packed suitcase of things his mother (or others) bought for him? That's just not the way it works, even if you are paying child support. The custodial parent is not expected, by the courts, to provide for 100% of the child's needs while they are with the non-custodial parent. BE A PARENT....BE A GROWN UP! And just maybe you will get to see your child. Instead you are reinforcing any bad things he is hearing about you each and everytime you act like a jacka$$.

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    Default Re: Custodial Refuses Visitation What Can I Do

    You guys really think the judge would be happy to know that I missed 3 weeks of visitation this included christmas because mom refused to give me my child at the designated location? That I have over a month without phone calls because shes calling from a number is not her? The judge made it very clear NO PHONE FROM STEPMOTHER. And she had rhe guts to say that the judge said that because I lied saying stepmother overstepped with conv

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    Default Re: Custodial Refuses Visitation What Can I Do

    you have blocked phone numbers that you KNOW are hers or members of her household....how can she possibly know what phone calls you are going to deign to accept? Get over the stepmother.....it doesn't matter if Stepmother overhears what you are saying.....unless you are badmouthing her.

    Until you see this is about YOU and not them, you are never going to learn and this is going to be a continuous ongoing war.

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    Default Re: Custodial Refuses Visitation What Can I Do

    So, prove that it's stepmother calling when it's from a different number. Don't just assume it or say it, prove it. Without proof and I mean real proof and not your just saying "I know it", I think when the judge hears that you missed visitation because you blocked all phone numbers but one, you're going to be very surprised at who the judge is yelling at. And it won't be either Mom or Stepmom.

    You're going to lose any right to see your child at all at this rate.

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    You guys really think the judge would be happy to know that I missed 3 weeks of visitation this included christmas because mom refused to give me my child at the designated location? That I have over a month without phone calls because shes calling from a number is not her? The judge made it very clear NO PHONE FROM STEPMOTHER. And she had rhe guts to say that the judge said that because I lied saying stepmother overstepped with conv
    You missed holiday with the child becasue you threw a tantrum and refused to pick up your child


    yes I belive the court will side with the mother given what you’ve posted here.


    And if you refuse to answer answer your phone, no phone calls is also your fault.

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    Default Re: Custodial Refuses Visitation What Can I Do

    Is not my ex grandfather is stepmother so has nothing to do with my child. Im not saying is stepmother calling but he is calling from her number which the judge made it clear no phonecalls from stepmother as she overstepped

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