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My question involves a child custody case from the State of: N

Two weeks now I dont see my child since custodial is not bringing him at designated pickup location. She wants me to go to another address not included in the court. Just because she “has family emergency”. I told her Im only going where the court ordered to not another location. How can I make her enforce the order?
She had a family emergency and she asked you to be cooperative. You refused. So YOU are deciding not to see your kid because YOU are a selfish POS. If you try to take her to court for contempt and the judge finds out she was trying to work with you when she had an emergency, the judge is going to be mad at YOU. YOU are the problem you realize this right?

There is nothing that says you can't deviate from the order if an emergency comes up. So what if you had an emergency and you couldn't meet her at the place - is it okay for her to say "no you have to meet me here."

Be reasonable. I guess you're not seeing your kid until the next time you have visitation then.

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According to her mother, stepmother grandfather was sick for two weeks and died yesterday and my ex younger child was at emergency last night due to the flu. She wants me to go to stepmother family location not mention in the order. I told her to bring him to a police station and she refused. She offer extra days but wants me to pickup at the other location. She offered overnight not enforce yet in the order but wanted me to buy him clothes. Now been three weeks without seeing my child or talking to him over the phone because she insist on using another phone that is not her personal number. So I had to blocked the other one as well or any message from her because she keep asking things not enforce in the order.

I dont want to go to another location because she filed a police report saying I disappeared with my child for few hours after she asked me to bring him to another location. Her excuse was that she filed it because I blocked her number and she had no way to communicate with me and the number I was texting her she though I blocked it as well. Thats why I dont go to another location. Shes the one unwilling to coparent. What can I do to solve this?
HOLY SHIT - she offered you MORE time and you said no? Her grandpa died. Her other child is in the hospital. Be a HUMAN BEING and work with her to see your kid. It's YOUR fault you haven't seen the kid. YOU. No one else. YOU.

No she is 100% TRYING to coparent. YOU aren't. What can you do to solve this? BE AN ADULT! That's all you can do.

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She’s violating the order for a whole month and im the bad one?
She's not violating the order - she offered you more time if you met her during a family emergency. She was trying to work with you. So you know what go ahead and file contempt. I wish I could see the judge tear you apart when he or she hears that she tried to coparent with you and you refused.